coming clean kimberly rae miller summary

I tend to get tense and stressed until everything gets put away and taken care of. Sometimes our house is cluttered with toys, sports equipment, mail and newspapers, dirty dishes, laundry, etc.

Miller’s ability to share her story in such a gracious way. After reading this book I find myself feeling affection towards Ms. Ultimately I found this book to be about family, and how people do the best they can with what they have. She was allowed to tell her story, which is largely shaped by her experience with her parents and the hoarding, yes, but that isn’t everything about her.

Miller’s writing style was vivid enough to create a mental picture in the reader’s mind without resorting to the type of sensationalism that a lesser editor might demand. She talks about her nightmares and her need for her own place that is clean and under her control. She talks about the multiple surgeries her mother had, and how after each one the family faced more challenges. She shares stories of the time child protective services came, not because of the hoarding, but because of a lie she told, and the terror her parents felt because they knew she’d be taken away if CPS saw their home. She began acting as a way to take on another personality in the hopes of figuring out how she could navigate the world. Miller was a shy child who tried to keep the reality of her father’s hoarding from the rest of the world. Miller is telling a very thoughtful story about the complicated but devoted relationship she maintains with her parents. Yes, she is clear on what she means by hoarding, and yes, sometimes the descriptions are enough to make one maybe not want to eat during those paragraphs, but in reality Ms. Miller’s story through vivid anecdotes that really bring the reader as much into her world as possible, without dwelling so much on the details that shows like ‘Hoarders’ love to emphasize (cat carcasses, anyone?). Author Kimberly Rae Miller was raised by two loving parents, one of whom is a hoarder, and the other who has, at times, been a compulsive shopper.

Coming clean kimberly rae miller summary